The Best Orange County Date Ideas

Updated on Sep 5, 2021

Orange County actually has some really charming destinations that are ideal for a romantic date! Here are my favorites.

1. Laguna Beach

My pick for the best Orange County date area is Laguna Beach. Once a secluded beach town, the secret is out, and traffic and parking are a nightmare. But, for good reason, as the little beach community has tons of charm.

Have dinner (make reservations) or lunch at one of the great restaurants there, check out the boutiques and shops, then walk along the beach and up to the boardwalk in the cliffs of Heisler Park. This place is mega-romantic and feels like Hawaii in places.

For amazing views right along the cliffs, make dinner reservations at Las Brisas, then do the cliff walk afterward. You can’t go wrong with that combination!

As I mentioned, traffic, parking, and crowds can be a nightmare in the most popular area around Main Beach Park, where PCH meets Broadway. I would pretty much forget about going on a summer weekend and instead opt for a weekday if that is possible

One “must-see” event in Laguna Beach is their famous Festival of Arts “Pageant of the Masters”, which happens in July through August. There, they re-create famous paintings with live actors and real sets. If this idea seems boring to you, take a look at the reviews on Yelp by reluctant husbands and boyfriends who were dragged to this event but ended up really enjoying it. Arrive early to avoid nightmarish traffic though.

2. Disneyland / California Adventure

One of the first articles I wrote on this site was on how to have a great date at Disneyland. My number one tip is go in the afternoon and stay till closing because Disneyland is much more romantic at night. Plus, it will be cooler and there will be fewer screaming babies. Even the cheesy rides like the Jungle Cruise are charming and more believable at night. Oh, and don’t miss the fireworks show, which is excellent. Yes, Disneyland at night can be a romantic, albeit expensive, date idea. Read all of my Disneyland date tips.

Disneyland Main Street
Disneyland Main Street USA at night

And let’s not forget about California Adventure, which is some ways a more “grown-up” park with restaurants that serve alcohol and faster rides.

3. Downtown Disney

If you can’t afford the over $200 cost of doing Disneyland for two, have a low-cost “Disney experience” at Downtown Disney. There are no rides but the atmosphere is similar. As a bonus, they serve alcohol at Downtown Disney, which they do not inside the park. Sometimes they have live music as well. The general consensus is that Catal is the best restaurant in Downtown Disney, but you’ll definitely need reservations during the weekend. My backup restaurant is Naples Ristorante e Pizzeria, which generally has capacity if you don’t mind waiting a bit. Or, have dinner at one of the fine restaurants in Disney’s Grand Californian Hotel which is great to just walk through as well.

Downtown Disney
Downtown Disney

4. Orange Hill Restaurant

Orange Hill is one of those restaurants known more for its view than its food, but it is still one of the most romantic restaurants in Orange County. The view is spectacular, but I also enjoy walking the grounds after dinner. If you are a hard-core foodie, perhaps you should find somewhere else, but, if you enjoy good ambiance and are not too demanding about food, the ambiance of this place is unbeatable in Orange County.


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5. The Anaheim Packing House

Anaheim Packing House at the Anaheim Packing District
Anaheim Packing House at the Anaheim Packing District

The Anaheim Packing House is a “food hall reminiscent of the great public markets of South America and Europe”. Built in 1919, it was originally a train loading station for oranges. Now, it houses some great restaurants and features live music on the weekends. Definitely a good place for casual dinner and drinks.

6. Modern Times Leisuretown Brewery / Cafe

With its huge “BEER & FOOD” lit up sign out front, Modern Times Leisuretown is probably unlike any other brewery you’ve been to. Located in Anaheim near the Packing House, it’s got an eclectic beach motel vibe complete with pool! But, it’s not all show, as they do have a great selection of beer.

If beer is not your thing, go next door to Modern Times Coffee cafe. Either way, you’re in for a fun and interesting time, perfect for a date!

7. The Cellar Restaurant

With the interior built by the craftsman who worked on Disneyland’s Pirates of the Caribbean, The Cellar in Fullerton is a romantic and charming date restaurant. The classic old-school dining room has white tablecloths and serves solid European fare. There is also courtyard seating. Food, service, and drinks get good reviews online.

8. Summit House Restaurant

Summit House Restaurant in Fullerton is the perfect place to go for a special occasion like a birthday, anniversary, or Valentine’s day… or if you just want to impress someone. Specializing in prime rib and classic American fare, this white-tablecloth restaurant has a romantic interior and beautiful outdoor patios.

This place is definitely old school, not trendy at all, but in a good way. The food and service are excellent. The desserts are also wonderful! If it’s still light out after dinner, you can walk the grounds, which are quite charming. There’s a pathway that runs around the perimeter of the property.

9. Segerstrom Center for the Arts

You don’t need to go all the way to L.A. for a “cultural” night out to see a play or symphony. The Segerstrom Center for the Arts in Costa Mesa offers musicals, ballets, and classical orchestras. Check their calendar to see what’s going on.

The Segerstrom Center for the Arts
The Segerstrom Center for the Arts

Our favorite concert there was Pink Martini with the Pacific Symphony in 2021 – amazing!

Pink Martini with the Pacific Symphony at the Sergestrom
Pink Martini with the Pacific Symphony, September 4th 2021

10. Orange Circle Plaza Square

The Orange Circle, located at the intersection of Chapman and Glassel, is the closest thing I can think of in Orange County to Mill Valley’s downtown square in Back to the Future. Step back in time and check out the vintage clothing stores, antique shops, restaurants, and coffee houses in this very charming area.

Vintage clothing and antique store at Orange Circle
Vintage clothing and antique store at Orange Circle

It’s a great informal first date location where you can grab coffee, then walk around afterward if things are going well. I recommend the huge Urth Caffe, where you can have coffee next to a cool table-level fire pit.

Urth Caffe in Orange
Orth Caffe in Orange – my favorite coffee house in the Orange Circle

For dessert, check out Pie Hole. Or, browse vinyl at Mr. C’s Rare Records (the oldest record store in Orange County), satisfy your inner geek at Big Red Comics, or grab a soda, 1950’s style at Watson’s Soda Fountain and Cafe.

11. The Fifth Rooftop Restaurant & Bar

Orange County doesn’t have a lot of rooftop bars, but The Fifth is one of the few. It’s located across the street from Disneyland at the top of the Grand Legacy at the Park hotel. If you time it right, you’ll be treated to a front seat for Disneyland’s fireworks! Food is gastropub fare and gets pretty good reviews on Yelp! Parking is limited unless you do valet, so be prepared to be redirected and do some walking. Reservations highly recommended!

12. Orange County Fair / OC Night Market

Located at the Costa Mesa Events Center, the Orange County Fair runs from mid-July through mid-August. This isn’t a quaint country-style fair. It’s bright and loud with amped-up EDM music playing in the rides with flashing lights. As with most amusement parks, I recommend going in the late afternoon and spending most of your time there at night, when it’s cooler and more romantic. Food is definitely not healthy but sinfully good, i.e., everything is fried (and not cheap!) Although admission is cheap ($14 on weekends as of this writing), the games, food, and rides all add up. So, it’s not exactly a cheap night out, but it can be fun if you’re into this sort of stuff. Look for half-off admission coupons on Groupon.

The OC Night Market is located in the same space as the Fair but happens only a few days in May, June, and August. The emphasis is on higher-end food-truck-type food. Lines can get insanely long so don’t arrive hungry (or arrive really early when the lines are short). Oh, and bring a lot of cash, because they don’t take credit. There are also lots of vendors and carnival-type games. This can be fun if you are prepared and know what you are getting into.

13. Huntington Beach – Bars and Bonfires!

There are two date night attractions that I wanted to highlight in Huntington Beach.  The first is Main St. from PCH to a few blocks inland. This popular area has lots of restaurants and bars. These include Perqs, Gallagher’s, Baja Sharkeez, Hurricanes Bar & Grill and 2nd Floor. The crowd is young – mostly college or 20’s folks bar hopping. You could argue this is more of a place for rowdy singles and frat-boy types to hang out, but I thought it had charm as well. So, it may or may not be your cup of tea. On Tuesdays from 5-9PM they have “Surf City Nights” with a farmer’s market and live bands. Worth checking out!

The other attraction I like in Huntington Beach is the beach at night, because it’s one of the few So Cal beaches that allow bonfires! A few blocks south of the pier there are over 500 concrete “fire rings” where you can burn your own firewood at night! Bring a towel, a blanket, some snacks, and of course, some firewood.

Unfortunately, there is no way to reserve a fire pit – they are first-come, first-serve. I suggest scoping out the beach before you plan to go to get a feel for the crowds and how early you need to arrive. More info on Huntington Beach bonfires here.

14. Newport Beach

Newport Beach has lots of great restaurants. Pick one, have dinner there, then walk around this charming town, whether you are at the waterfront, Balboa Island, Balboa Peninsula, or Fashion Island. Check out OC Weekly’s top ten essential Newport Beach restaurants.

For a more adventurous date idea, check out paddleboarding with Pirate Coast Paddle Company. They have great reviews on Yelp and are perfect for beginners. Check out this night paddle!

Or depart from Newport Beach to go whale watching with Newport Whales. They have whale-watching and dolphin cruises that are 2-2.5 hours in length.

15. Knott’s Berry Farm

If Disneyland is a great date idea, then Knott’s must be too. Knott’s offers real roller coasters as opposed to Disneyland’s kiddy rides. Oh, and the food is a bit better too. I highly recommend purchasing your tickets online in advance, as there is a huge savings.


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During Halloween, Knott’s Scary Farm is famous for having employees dressed up as monsters scaring the sh*t out of people. For a more relaxed experience, go during Christmas at night – the decorations are really nice.

16. The Camp

This is a small “eco-friendly” outdoor mall in Costa Mesa with a different vibe: more Earthy, with bare wood and metal, Airstream trailers, and succulent gardens. There are fewer big chains here (besides Patagonia) and more unique stores. The Camp is a good informal “get-to-know-you” type of place for coffee and a pleasant stroll without too much commitment or distraction.

Evening at The Camp

17. Angeles or Ducks Game

I’ve always felt that Angels Stadium was just a tad better than other baseball stadiums in terms of overall atmosphere and cleanliness. There’s a good selection of food too. If you’re not an Angels fan, go when they’re playing a team that you do like.

Similarly, Honda Center where the Ducks play is pretty nice and clean, as far as stadiums go.

18. Bike Riding

Orange County is not especially known for its bike trails, but you might be surprised by what it has to offer. OC Explore offers 5 Scenic Rides in Orange County and Where to Grab a Beer After. The most notable of these is the Fullerton Bike Loop. It’s not an “official” bike trail, but maybe that’s part of the allure. It even has a “Love Tunnel”!

There are also some great scenic routes around Newport Beach. Start off at Corona del Mar State Beach’s Inspiration Point, then head northwest to Lookout Point. From there, keep going until you get to the Balboa Island bridge. Cross it and spend some time on the Island. For $1.25 per bicyclist, you can board the ferry to get to Balboa Peninsula and check out the Fun Zone. You can rent electric bikes at Pedego Corona Del Mar or take a guided bike tour.

19. Your Local Farmer’s Market

I believe that going to a farmer’s market can be a fun, mellow date idea. Everyone could use more fresh fruit, right? Check out this list of farmer’s markets in your area of Orange County.

Honorable Mentions

Orange County has some other cool areas such as Downtown Brea and Downtown Santa Ana which are up-and-coming!

Orange County Great Park in Irvine offers amazingly pristine, newly- constructed, athletic fields, pathways, and landscapes. There are some other cool things like the Great Park Balloon ride. As a date idea, it’s still somewhat of a work in progress. It’s a great place to play tennis, jog, or go rollerblading with someone. I’d probably recommend the farmer’s market most of all though. It happens from 10 AM to 2 PM every Sunday.

Great Park in Irvine featuring the balloon ride
Great Park in Irvine featuring the balloon ride

I hope you like these ideas. What have I missed? Please leave a comment below! – Brian


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