The Best Date Ideas in Malibu, Topanga, and the Pacific Palisades

Updated on Sep 4, 2023

Malibu is a great place for an all-day or half-day date when you want to get away from it all without straying too far from the Los Angeles area.

You get beautiful beaches and mountains, as well as great restaurants and other attractions. Check out these date ideas in Malibu, Topanga, and the Pacific Palisades.

Just be careful on really warm summer weekends, when PCH can turn into a parking lot.

1. The Getty Villa

Modeled after a first-century Italian villa, the Getty Villa is an amazing destination for a special date when you want to get away from the hustle and bustle of Los Angeles.

Getty Villa
Getty Villa

The highlights include the gardens, architecture, and museum, which features mostly Greek, Roman, and Etruscan art and artifacts. It’s not a huge property so you can see everything in two hours or less. Advance reservations are required and cost is $20 per car for parking.

The on-site restaurant is actually quite good for a museum restaurant. They also have a tea room upstairs, but book well in advance for afternoon tea. If you want afternoon tea on a weekend, you might need to book it three months or more in advance, but it would make a fantastic date idea!

Afterward, check out some of the other date spots on this list!

2. Palisades Village

Palisades Village is a super-charming outdoor shopping mall brought to you by the same developer that built the Grove and Glendale Americana (Caruso). It’s small, nowhere near as big as the Grove, but still a worthy mellow date spot for dinner, coffee, a smoothie, or ice cream.

It’s located in the heart of “downtown” Pacific Palisades, so there are lots of other shops and restaurants to explore in the surrounding blocks.

We enjoy stopping here for a smoothie after hiking the nearby trails.

3. Cafe on 27

This mostly outdoor American restaurant is situated on the side of a hill and has sweeping views of the Santa Monica Mountains. Cafe on 27 offers a really unique dining experience. It’s a great brunch spot. They are not open for dinner.

4. Nobu Malibu

If you really want to impress a foodie (or anyone else for that matter), and have the budget to match, look no further than Iron Chef Nobu Matsuhisa’s Nobu in Malibu. The sushi and other Japanese dishes are simply amazing. The location, right along the edge of the ocean, is ideal, especially at sunset.

5. Geoffrey’s Malibu

For an outdoor dining experience with sweeping views of the Pacific, Geoffrey’s Malibu is the place to go to. This place is definitely romantic and perfect for special date occasions! The service and California cuisine get high marks on Yelp, so it’s not just a hyped up restaurant with a good view.

6. Inn of the Seventh Ray

Nestled in the middle of the woods off of Old Topanga Canyon Road, Inn of the Seventh Ray has got to be one of the most secluded and romantic restaurants in the L.A. area. You’ll dine outside under trees adorned with white lights. Even more amazing is that the California cuisine, made from seasonal organic ingredients, is actually just as impressive as the setting.

Inn of the Seventh Ray
Inn of the Seventh Ray

We went in the middle of the week, and it was pretty empty, which was surprising to us. But, I suppose it is quite a trek to get up there during the week if you work in the middle of the city.

The decor is somewhat “New Agey” with Buddhas displayed around the grounds.

7. Hiking

The Santa Monica Mountains offer some of the best hiking trails in Southern California, and they’re just a short drive away from the city.

Note that most of these parks don’t have a lot of tree cover, and they can get pretty hot in the middle of the day.  I suggest going in the morning or late afternoon when it’s cooler.  And, be sure to bring water!!  Also, some of these parks charge for parking, so bring cash.

A very easy hike with great views is at Will Rogers State Park.  For a bit more challenge, check out Temescal Canyon, which features a cool landmark (and potential make-out point) called “Skull Rock”. Just a little further up Sunset Boulevard, near where it meets PCH, is the Los Liones Canyon trail. This is probably my favorite of the three trails that are off of Sunset in this area.

Further up PCH is Topanga State Park. It has some cool boulders and rock outcroppings, and some nice views.  Many people (myself included) like the Eagle Rock Trail.

View from the Eagle Rock trail, Topanga Canyon
View from the Eagle Rock trail, Topanga Canyon. Pack a lunch and eat on the rocks, like this couple is doing.

Sandstone Peak is the highest point in the Santa Monica Mountains and offers some great views.  You get to it from the Circle X Ranch.  At this point, you’re pretty far from Santa Monica (almost to Camarillo!), but you’ll be rewarded with cool views and more privacy.

The trail up to Sandstone Peak
The trail up to Sandstone Peak

A great overall guide to hiking in the Santa Monica Mountains is this page. Check out this complete map of hiking trails in the Santa Monica Mountains.

After your hike, drive along PCH and stop for lunch at one of the casual seafood restaurants that I mention below.

8. Horseback Riding

For a really unique date idea, how about horseback riding for an afternoon in the Santa Monica mountains?

I went with an operation called Malibu Riders, and we had a fantastic experience riding in the Paramount Ranch area. While the sets there were destroyed in the recent fires, and some of the trails are closed, the Paramount Ranch ride is still open.

You don’t need any riding experience, and they supply everything you need.

Malibu Riders
Malibu Riders will show up with a trailer with the horses and everything you need for the ride.

I had never ridden a horse before but I thoroughly enjoyed the experience!

After your ride, have lunch at The Old Place, a local restaurant that looks like a Western saloon right out of the 1800s. It’s a perfect way to end a horseback ride!

Another good nearby option is Malibu Cafe.

9. Mastro’s Ocean Club Malibu

If want a classic old-school steak and seafood experience in an amazing location, check out Mastro’s Ocean Club Malibu. The food, service, and atmosphere will not disappoint!

10. The Malibu Cafe

Located in Calamigos Ranch in the heart of the Santa Monica Mountains off of Kanan-Dume Road, the Malibu Cafe is a quirky and fun outdoor dining spot that offers outdoor games and new American cuisine.

Malibu Cafe
Malibu Cafe during the day. At night the bistro lights make this a romantic dinner location.

The outdoor dining here is definitely romantic at night, with a unique, fun, and less formal atmosphere. Great if you don’t like stuffy restaurants with white tablecloths.

11. Will Geer’s Theatricum Botanicum

If you’re a fan of things Shakespeare in the Park or ourdoor classical music performances, you’ll love Theatricum Botanicum, which is an intimate outdoor amphitheater deep in the Santa Monica Mountains off of Topanga Canyon Blvd (highway 27).

Shakespeare figures prominently in their schedule but they also feature other plays, classical music, and even stand-up comedy. Check their website for anything that looks interesting.

One cool thing to do is picnic before the show, kind of like you would at the Hollywood Bowl. You are welcome to bring your own food and drinks, and concessions are available on-site as well. Remember to bring seat cushions and a blanket, as it does get cold up there at night!

12. Beaches

No article about Malibu would be complete without mentioning the beaches. But one big warning here – the traffic on PCH can be jammed with beachgoers on sunny weekends. If you want to go to a beach in Malibu on a sunny day, do it during a weekday.

Lechuza Beach
Check out the rock formations at Lechuza Beach

My favorite “secret” beach is Lechuza Beach, but of course, there are many others in the area to explore! Go for a walk, lay out in the sun, or check out the waves.

13. Roadside Casual Seafood Restaurants on PCH

After a hike or visit to the beach, there’s nothing better than having lunch at one of the casual “biker” picnic table seafood restaurants on PCH.

Furthest out, but one of my favorites, is Neptune’s Net, a classic biker hangout on PCH featuring fried clams, fried shrimp, and French fries. Note, the restrooms here are port-a-potties so this is definitely a casual place, but the food is so good after a long hike.

Another great after-hike casual lunch spot is Malibu Seafood Fresh Fish Market & Patio Cafe. The menu is similar to Neptune’s Net, and you wait in line to order, then eat at picnic tables outside. It’s located a little past Pepperdine on PCH as you are driving away from Santa Monica.

Malibu Seafood
Malibu Seafood

My last pick in this category is The Reel Inn Malibu, which offers a larger variety of fish and indoor picnic-table seating. It’s located just past Topanga Canyon Blvd.

14. Lake Shrine

If you’re looking for a peaceful oasis to escape from your troubles or to chillax with someone special, Lake Shrine offers an amazingly beautiful setting with a trail that wraps around a picturesque lake.

Lake Shrine

Lake Shrine has religious symbols and statues devoted to the world’s most popular religions including Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, and Islam. It’s kind of strange (to me) to see these religious symbols all together in one place, and it definitely has a New Agey feel, but you can’t deny that the setting is beautiful. Admission is free.

Note that this place is intended for quiet meditation, so don’t come here to break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend or anything like that!

15. The Sunset Restaurant

The Sunset is a casual but charming restaurant overlooking Point Dume which features New American cuisine and seafood. The outdoor dining area is on sand, so not great of high heels.

The restaurant faces West, so you’ll always have a view of the sunset (hence the name). It’s a great choice if you want a great Malibu experience with ocean views, at somewhat more affordable prices than some of the other uber-high-end restaurants on this list.

16. Malibu Country Mart

Just before you hit Pepperdine when going up PCH is the Malibu Country Mart, a large outdoor mall consisting of restaurants and upscale shops.

Walkway to the Broad Street Oyster Co.
Walkway to the Broad Street Oyster Co.

The east side has a mini-mall layout with a parking lot in the middle and stores along the sides. For a real meal, check out Broad Street Oyster Co, famous for its acclaimed lobster roll. Or have brunch at Marmalade Cafe.

Entrance to Taverna Tony, which features Mediterranean food
Entrance to Taverna Tony, which features Mediterranean food

The west side has more charming styling, with a kids’ playground in the middle and very high-end stores. For authentic Mediterranean food, check out Tra Di Noi (Italian), Cafe Habana Malibu (Cuban), or Taverna Tony, which features live music every night and a belly dancer on weekends. All have charming patio seating.

Lucky’s is an upscale steakhouse serving both dinner and brunch! This place has a “white tablecloth” high-end ambiance so be prepared for upscale prices, but the food is good.

Not officially part of the Malibu Country Mart, but directly behind it is a newer mall anchored by Whole Foods. This has a cool outdoor vibe with plant walls and gardens. Notable here is Blue Bottle Coffee.

I wouldn’t make a trip to Malibu just to visit the Malibu Country Mart, but it’s a fine stop if you’re already in the area for a hike, beach trip, or just a scenic drive. Note that parking can be difficult on the weekends. If there’s no parking, continue back to the Whole Foods area where you should find some spots.

17. Malibu Farm Restaurant / Cafe at the Malibu Pier

Malibu Cafe on the Malibu Pier
Malibu Cafe

Malibu Farm Restaurant is located at the start of the Malibu Pier, whereas the Cafe is located at the far end. The Cafe is a more casual restaurant offering counter service with indoor and outdoor seating. It does not take reservations.

The Malibu Farm Restaurant is a full-service restaurant with bar, patio, and dining room seating. They will take dinner reservations.

Both offer American cuisine in a unique location on the pier; ideal for a casual lunch or dinner (at the Restaurant only). Parking is $15 at the lot. There is free parking on PCH, but it’s often very crowded. It tends to be very crowded on weekends, so I suggest going during the week if you can.


These are my top date ideas in Malibu and the Pacific Palisades! Any questions? What do you think of these? What did I miss? Please leave a comment below. – Brian

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